I don't have much time right now to post, so I will be brief. I hope and pray that very soon, I can come back and fill in all of the crazy amazing details of how intimately God has been involved and working behind the scenes to make this adoption happen and to completely come through financially.
We are amazed and in awe of what the Lord has done!
To God Be The Glory, Great Things HE has done!
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
Thursday, August 25, 2016
So What is Left to Pay?
Basically here is what is left to pay:
Orphanage Donations for each child = approximately $12,000 total ($6,000 for each child)
In Country Fees = $3,000
For a grand total of approximately $15,000 still needed to be fully funded.
AND ....before you get your panties in a wad about the orphanage "donation" - please consider this:
This money is used to help reimburse the orphanage system for 4-5 years worth of care for our children ...and one of our children had open heart surgery for crying out loud!
This is seriously such a gross under-payment for anything and everything these two children have required in food, nurture, education and medical care over the last 4-5 years.
As I have said before, Chinese culture is a very complicated one. Unless you have lived there, or experienced the orphan and adoption scene for yourself ...I encourage you to please be careful about rushing to any judgments. Even those of us who have adopted from there, we still really have no idea what is is like for the families who actually live there and the kind of "choices" they are required to make each and every day ...most of which we in this country will never, ever have to come close to.
If you have any questions or concerns about any of our adoption expenses, experiences ...really anything at all, please feel free to comment or contact me. I am happy to share.
Thank you all again for your prayers and support!
Rant over, night!
Orphanage Donations for each child = approximately $12,000 total ($6,000 for each child)
In Country Fees = $3,000
For a grand total of approximately $15,000 still needed to be fully funded.
AND ....before you get your panties in a wad about the orphanage "donation" - please consider this:
This money is used to help reimburse the orphanage system for 4-5 years worth of care for our children ...and one of our children had open heart surgery for crying out loud!
This is seriously such a gross under-payment for anything and everything these two children have required in food, nurture, education and medical care over the last 4-5 years.
As I have said before, Chinese culture is a very complicated one. Unless you have lived there, or experienced the orphan and adoption scene for yourself ...I encourage you to please be careful about rushing to any judgments. Even those of us who have adopted from there, we still really have no idea what is is like for the families who actually live there and the kind of "choices" they are required to make each and every day ...most of which we in this country will never, ever have to come close to.
If you have any questions or concerns about any of our adoption expenses, experiences ...really anything at all, please feel free to comment or contact me. I am happy to share.
Thank you all again for your prayers and support!
Rant over, night!
Adoption Funding Updates
Who's Got Their Praise On?
Thanks so several donations, an online auction and a few adoption grants which just came through, we have just hit the $30,000 raised mark!! We sort of jumped from $15,000 to $30,000 in just a few days time. ...which means that I didn't get to use my sweet thermometer graphics that I had ready to go for the $20,000 and $25,000 marks. Oh, well ....I can just use them next time around! :)
Only $15,000 to go! To God be the Glory! Great Things He has Done!
Thank you to everyone of you for your prayers and support!
Thanks so several donations, an online auction and a few adoption grants which just came through, we have just hit the $30,000 raised mark!! We sort of jumped from $15,000 to $30,000 in just a few days time. ...which means that I didn't get to use my sweet thermometer graphics that I had ready to go for the $20,000 and $25,000 marks. Oh, well ....I can just use them next time around! :)
Only $15,000 to go! To God be the Glory! Great Things He has Done!
Thank you to everyone of you for your prayers and support!
Adoption Fees and Costs
This post is also for all those mobile device users who have missed all of the painstaking and oh so interesting break-down of all our adoption expenses.
Adoption Cost : Start at bottom of the list and work your way to the top. And if you add it all up, it comes to approximately $45,000 to $47,000. (There is some variance in the that price due to travel cost fluctuation and some document processing fees.)
Adoption Timeline
Is has occurred to me that those of you who view this blog on a mobile device may be missing all of the spectacular information that I have been updating in the side bar. Therefore, for your reading pleasure, I thought I would post our adoption timeline as a blog post too!
I would be so very sad if I spent all of this time and effort on all of these tedious details for no one to appreciate them! So here you go! .
...And YES, it really has taken us a year for this process to unfold! Through it all, however, GOD has been faithful and HIS fingerprints are all over this story.
Our Adoption Timeline:
(...and because I would really like to add to your confusion ...the beginning starts at the bottom. You need to go to the bottom and read from the bottom to the top.)
Monday, July 25, 2016
Why Does Adoption Cost So Much?
This is the most common question we get.
There is a short
answer and a long answer.
The short answer is that everything about the adoption
process is intended to help reduce child abuse and trafficking. Since these travesties are on the rise
worldwide, more and more rules, regulations and systems have been put in place
to help reduce the risk. All of these
things require the involvement of professionals on both sides of the
ocean.
For the long answer,
let me use an illustration from real life.
Recently, my seventy year old mother had the battery pack
in her pacemaker replaced. This is was
the same pacemaker she’s had for the last eight years. It has worked like a charm and we are
grateful to have it. Without it, she
would certainly die because she is completely pacer dependent, which means her
heart will not beat on its own. Not just
a slow heart beat, but latterly nothing, nada, zilch!
When she got the bill, she called me to go over the
itemization list for the bill. The total
for a simple outpatient, slightly more than local anesthesia procedure which
only took 20 minutes, was over $21,000.
Not too bad, when you consider her life depends on it. I was with her that day and personally
witnessed top-notch expert professional care.
Everything involved in the process was accounted for from
that day. From the gal who checked us in
to the nurse who took us back to the prep room, to the nurse who started the
IV, to the Cardiologist who performed the procedure, to the pacemaker experts,
radiology, etc. it was all there in black and white. We and her insurance company of course had
not problem paying the bill because it was all legit, professional AND EXPERT
care.
That is in contrast to her first pacemaker experience from
eight years earlier. She nearly died at
the hands of “professionals” who were not experts. Did you know there is a difference between
experts and professionals? Professionals
may have the education and a degree, but experts are EXPERTS ….they not only
have the education and degree, but they have the experience, knowledge and
track record to prove it.
Well it is kind of like that in the adoption world. One can choose to run down the road of
non-professional and unethical adoption practices or choose the legal ethical
way which involves professionals. If one
would like an added layer of insurance, then you find the professionals who are
also experts. Each level of
professionalism and expertise comes with added costs. You may have noticed like I have that
professionals and experts generally like to be paid because it is what they do
for a living after all, right?
We can use another illustration from the medical
world. When someone has a baby, they
expect to pay for all of the medical testing included blood test and
ultrasounds, the doctors and nurses who take care of mother and baby up to and
including delivery and thereafter. This whole process can easily top $30,000
and no one bats an eye. Why? Because the life of the mother and baby are
worth it! Most people are not willing to
take a risk for substandard and sketchy healthcare.
Why then are people so shocked that adoption cost range
from $30,000 and up? People somehow have
the misconception that the adoption is a lucrative business endeavor. What a joke!
There will always be bad press pointing out the one in a million cases
where things have gone bad. The in vast
majority of cases, things do not go down this way.
As I stated before, human trafficking, child abuse and the
sex slave trade throughout the world are at an all time high. Children’s lives are at risk and literally at
stake! Everywhere we look (if we are
willing to look) we can see clear evidence of this. Somehow people just don’t seem to think that
an orphan’s life is worth thousands of dollars.
I cannot tell you how many times people have said to me, “They have so
many of them you’d think they’d be happy to give them away.” What?!? Are you kidding me! Did those words just come out of your mouth?!?
Most adoptive families and adoption agencies are more than
happy to share what all of the cost are and where they originate from. Our family has always been very transparent
with our adoption cost and how they were paid.
And just as side note, did you know that Asia has the
largest number of orphans compared to every continent in the world? Also, did you know that in many Asian
countries, specifically China, children age of the orphanage system at age
14? Yes, you read that right, age
14! What do you think happens to all of
those children when they are shown the door?
They are no longer able to receive an education. How do you think they can support themselves
and learn to be productive members of society?
Who do you think is ready and willing to offer them “employment”,
housing and food? Well, as a general
rule it is the human traffickers and child sex slave traders. I mean, why not, right? It could not be a more perfect set up for
them …young, innocent, vulnerable, desperate, hungry, homeless, helpless,
hopeless.
This just makes me so sick!
I literally get an upset stomach when I talk or think about it.
So what is a child’s life worth? Is it worth $30,000 plus? Is it worth sacrificing and traveling to the
other side of the globe to rescue that child?
You bet it is!
And here’s the another thing …People say to me all the time, “Why would
you do it? It cost so much. It is stressful. It is time-consuming. It is so hard. Isn’t there an easier or cheaper way?” My response …. “Just because it is hard,
expensive and time consuming does not mean it’s wrong. Just because it is cheap, easy and free does
not mean it’s right. Most things in life
that are worth it, are worth fighting for.”
Besides, God never said about me: “She cost too much. She’s too
time-consuming. She’s too
difficult. She’s just too
stressful.” NO HE DID NOT! And neither
should we. HE gave it all to save
us!
Can you see the light?
Can you see why this is so important?
Adoption is our ministry.
Yes, it is our lives, but it is our daily ministry. Yes, it is right here in our home, but it is
a ministry. We are doing important
kingdom work here. This is our mission
field. Will you partner with us to bring
these treasures home?
LSC - Letter Seeking Confirmation
We received, signed and returned our Letter Seeking Confirmation on July 13, 2016.
Our I-800 application was sent out on July 15, 2016. It looks now like we will travel around mid September. Yikes!
So What is a Letter Seeking Confirmation anyway? This is the letter issued by the Chinese government official asking the adoptive parents to confirm whether or not they wish to proceed with the adoption or not.
The saddest part about the document is where is states the identity of the child as "Foundling" ...meaning they belong to no one ...they were just found somewhere.
This just makes me sick to think about it.
NOW we need to now kick our fundraising efforts into high gear!
We do have a tax deductible giving page set up through Lifesong for Orphans. You can make a difference with any size donation.
We need YOU now more than ever!
Follow this link for instant access to make your tax deductible donation. DONATE HERE
100% of money donated with this method goes towards our adoption fees.
We have conducted several fundraisers and completely tapped out any financial resources we had.
God will provide, we are completely confident of this.
Did you know that HE cares not about money? He cares about our hearts. "Where your treasure is, so also is your heart."
He is inviting you to participate in something bigger than you can dream or imagine.
He could drop $30,000 out of the sky if He wanted to. But instead he wants to work through HIS people to accomplish HIS purposes. He knows that you need to receive a blessing from giving and be a vital part of our children's adoption story.
Please consider giving. Any donation amount, large or small, will make a positive impact.
Thank you! Thank you a thousand times and more, from the bottom of our hearts!
Our I-800 application was sent out on July 15, 2016. It looks now like we will travel around mid September. Yikes!
So What is a Letter Seeking Confirmation anyway? This is the letter issued by the Chinese government official asking the adoptive parents to confirm whether or not they wish to proceed with the adoption or not.
The saddest part about the document is where is states the identity of the child as "Foundling" ...meaning they belong to no one ...they were just found somewhere.
This just makes me sick to think about it.
NOW we need to now kick our fundraising efforts into high gear!
We do have a tax deductible giving page set up through Lifesong for Orphans. You can make a difference with any size donation.
We need YOU now more than ever!
Follow this link for instant access to make your tax deductible donation. DONATE HERE
100% of money donated with this method goes towards our adoption fees.
We have conducted several fundraisers and completely tapped out any financial resources we had.
God will provide, we are completely confident of this.
Did you know that HE cares not about money? He cares about our hearts. "Where your treasure is, so also is your heart."
He is inviting you to participate in something bigger than you can dream or imagine.
He could drop $30,000 out of the sky if He wanted to. But instead he wants to work through HIS people to accomplish HIS purposes. He knows that you need to receive a blessing from giving and be a vital part of our children's adoption story.
Please consider giving. Any donation amount, large or small, will make a positive impact.
Thank you! Thank you a thousand times and more, from the bottom of our hearts!
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